vicarously

the idea was posed to me that we could all live vicarously through each other. if you, for instance were to be one who takes part in sleep as a nightly ritual, whereas i am one who sleep often alludes. then i could vicariously sleep through you.

another case in point being, that you living in some distant part of the world may long to grow a tropical garden but lack the wherewithall to get it done in your real world. you could vicariously tend to a tropical garden in my yard. we would both reap benefits from such a marevelous undertaking because i would vicariously have the tropical garden i have longed for and you would be tending the same vicarious garden thus fulfilling your desires

of course then we had to address the issues of real-world bills and mortgages and well vicariously let's just say i am now slumbering away dreamming of chocolate, coffee and (my favorite) dirt tea in vivid technicolor....i know that vicariously i will awake refreshed in the morning :)